because it should be said

[ironymaiden]

(mostly cribbed from mimerki)

interactions between eljay and Facebook flow in one direction: people who interact regularly with ironymaiden are likely welcome to know me on FB (where my public persona's only real obsession is the Sounders); people who know me on FB should only know ironymaiden through invitation. please don't share my content to FB or Twitter. if i wanted to share info there, i would. (actually, i don't mind if at some point i write a public post worth linking to as a webpage, but i very much mind connecting my real name/facebook persona to this space. insert threat of violence and/or humiliation here.)

also, as a PSA: i have never been the only ironymaiden on the internet. for example, i do not have a journalfen account or write fanfic. i do have a rarely-used Twitter account, but ironymaiden is not my username.

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RAMBLING

[girlpirate.livejournal.com]

I try to avoid lj-friends on Facebook unless I know 'em super closely. I am terrified of worlds colliding. While nothing super serious has come up, there has been the occasional collision of worlds and it makes me anxious.

Someone once commented something about BM sucking on a "man, work is annoying today!" post, but I was able to delete it right away. Then someone called Betty, Betty, on a picture of her. This would normally be fine, but Betty's name isn't really Betty. I change some of the names of people I talk about ...especially when I am venting about that person. (When I first met Betty, I found her to be INSANE. And wrote about it.) Betty is really Holly. So she was entirely confused as to why someone commented "Yay Betty! She is so pretty!" on FB.

It's all fun and games until someone loses an eye.

Re: RAMBLING

[ironymaiden]

this. no work-complaint stuff on FB, and very little reference to my actual political or religious beliefs. i use the Facebook account for professional purposes and for family. (and for their event invite system. that's something eljay could emulate.)

[buhrger]

very little reference to my actual political or religious beliefs.
i like to think that my approach to that on FB is delightfully brusque :-)