because it should be said

[ironymaiden]

(mostly cribbed from mimerki)

interactions between eljay and Facebook flow in one direction: people who interact regularly with ironymaiden are likely welcome to know me on FB (where my public persona's only real obsession is the Sounders); people who know me on FB should only know ironymaiden through invitation. please don't share my content to FB or Twitter. if i wanted to share info there, i would. (actually, i don't mind if at some point i write a public post worth linking to as a webpage, but i very much mind connecting my real name/facebook persona to this space. insert threat of violence and/or humiliation here.)

also, as a PSA: i have never been the only ironymaiden on the internet. for example, i do not have a journalfen account or write fanfic. i do have a rarely-used Twitter account, but ironymaiden is not my username.